nibot ([personal profile] nibot) wrote2006-01-11 08:47 pm
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rochester

Sometimes I like Rochester.

When I'm in my house and the house is warm and the lights are bright and the music's on and the girl's here and I've just eaten a good dinner and there's wine and I'm learning something interesting—then it's alright.

I'm still a little envious of [livejournal.com profile] four, café-hopping in San Francisco.

[identity profile] uniace.livejournal.com 2006-01-12 07:37 am (UTC)(link)
Is there a new convention in referring to "the girl?" You and Shamster both. Is it a term of endearment, confidentiality, hesitancy, or maybe she's amnesic and doesn't recall her own name?

The usage could be interpreted as being patronizing and/or objectifying, although it seems to me unlikely that such would be your (or Shamamatic's) intention.

And beside, whatever happend to the term "ladyfriend?"